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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。厦门越野联盟1 R+ Y. x( R# Y* ]! A3 N- W

3 [3 g, u( j3 y1 L1 F他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。7 k" q& ?) `& x
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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5 l; J" E1 r4 P1 _' ~. z* o他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?! T% h0 O3 R' T: m; z
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。+ l% ]) X) e2 r  |1 E. N

# c. v( t# S5 o0 g  T我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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- q8 l$ d7 d. ?" {8 @4 Q2 X他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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. R& n$ R( N  I: D我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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# b' ~/ v$ c# {4 [& Q+ t2 o真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。1.jeeplive.com$ n/ |/ ?! `2 _
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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9 `; {* t* J# E& P% iIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.4 V& N4 G. J- ?# r* E$ E1 c

3 }: V2 G! C! v- [! C  E0 kHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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2 @3 G) X0 k1 D0 c5 b  O厦门越野联盟I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.厦门越野联盟/ ?5 r4 |; m+ _6 d5 L: m
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.厦门越野联盟* O1 V  t0 [8 M% Y. a4 a, e
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.5 W- i: C$ M! p* s) [7 L7 y. Z* d

  L: d. f* o# oAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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+ F' D4 D$ _6 r1 r- j) }1.jeeplive.comHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.厦门越野联盟- \& h) e- O+ m4 [1 n

: w5 p: D4 f! N+ |) X" [I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?0 S- r+ \2 i3 v! @

& w1 ^; ]7 o7 N* {* y; P4 {厦门越野联盟He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".+ ~- H3 b  J& v3 u% m9 d! N6 c

- x5 i) P. x! W厦门越野联盟I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.% y& q9 _4 g0 D  ^  u) d
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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: [. h: J6 ]+ |7 P) j: i- RLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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