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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。厦门越野联盟" n1 I  W8 t5 _0 u0 p2 u# j7 z

  n* e% _% C. |  t, N, Z6 @我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。; I8 w, H1 P: n0 {. p

+ ~2 ^; V" D7 [9 @& t厦门越野联盟看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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* U0 N; R5 e: c2 ~" p- j! z1.jeeplive.com他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。厦门越野联盟6 {, |' d- ]$ t: ?/ W% s

8 x' ~6 v# U, C: }0 b我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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& W9 L2 i  o' }1 P, b' w1 p我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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1 @$ t' K; d# m0 d* ?3 x# L他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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: ], k4 C/ t- Z5 x& |他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。# t( K. ^% p" t7 k

# G- E7 G9 [) z7 x( i/ [, h厦门越野联盟真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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+ v! x$ _% A, J5 _% A0 o/ Q最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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3 V" f( @- L, l8 |2 E+ c2 c( P+ z# y厦门越野联盟生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain$ r1 c! _3 S9 ^+ d1 T- n7 x
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.$ N8 Q; @8 O" |) ]
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.9 ?$ P) `. N9 ?3 y) X- k

& q0 v1 ~- |8 y6 M: b+ |! M1.jeeplive.comI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.1 Q0 ^, M# U' ~) A7 w* P( ^/ b

) ~- A' y" [/ VI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.厦门越野联盟% T: r9 C& c* f# k- G) J

( Z# [* P. k7 `" R2 b# G: MThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.6 z* {8 X" A7 e- w$ P$ O2 X. i' b

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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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& K! P, }- j. L& D0 t" X, \8 @6 x厦门越野联盟I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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4 H1 f4 h0 u+ [' @True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.' m3 t. C/ O, f

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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