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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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. q& ?0 [- ~- u* U/ e  u我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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+ v* e( }2 \5 b看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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+ U+ y: V$ b2 N他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?1 \# h( q5 A9 j/ G
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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8 e- w0 V/ @% V, Y  q8 s1.jeeplive.com我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。' H5 B* L/ _( ]2 s- C. F

% v; H0 b' U! E我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"1.jeeplive.com( H4 _- y* y1 }

0 t) y( h% S$ a当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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7 d' B% }; r1 g4 }* ^( M/ S厦门越野联盟真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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9 z" j9 H% O  d" `- ?0 I最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。2 a2 ?( J8 l7 h) D
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain; Z, D6 O6 H; l  m1 A$ m' c

; B' A  k) k# I/ z6 zIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.5 h$ X5 D, Y  F& g* B

) Y9 T4 e7 ]5 n  j  A厦门越野联盟He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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# P( u, h. V% `9 d- Z厦门越野联盟I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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+ F9 h5 }( g2 s# @0 aI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.! t0 _: w, [) |# b! D; \1 Y

) q) y. v: ^0 f  EOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry./ F2 l  n: K9 ?* u

, ]: G$ s: a7 D) LThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.( w8 L% @0 d0 f  g# a. G7 Z

5 @) g- G6 e8 eHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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, T3 n( v8 p& n/ ^7 ]+ B6 xI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?$ z7 p/ M* `3 C8 ~$ j) Z" n
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".. a4 L# c+ ?- A3 ]9 \

' Z; A4 a+ d7 ^6 E$ @: DI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".) U( P* g. H0 ~

, U; h2 X! A5 I6 t3 Q* S- lTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.' t! ]/ X" m- f3 g
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。1.jeeplive.com9 `# s8 W5 B9 F6 K
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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