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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。* t  L* n1 a/ v2 h( M! x  p! x
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。5 y0 F$ T' e  n  Y) ?1 c

/ j( c* |! y; M4 r: E, c看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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: ?1 _/ p; h6 o$ `3 R% t- U6 W他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。- w2 u3 W/ e. s3 |' Z7 ?

6 S3 }2 Z) X0 N' o# X) ]2 J我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?厦门越野联盟0 A  K' v  x2 }; f, W

/ p: A. [( \1 t, ]' o5 x" k他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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- j' b# ~7 ]; }6 Y当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。, J9 q1 t! ~) w. c: E
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain1.jeeplive.com/ ~$ E5 {: h" ?" ?

; P6 d; l% g6 {) i- q) f6 V1.jeeplive.comIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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8 Q& v4 r0 G2 J- p) p1 n$ q6 p' }厦门越野联盟He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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7 y' p" ^9 f( Z- ?5 V! w9 tI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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+ X, \% s4 l+ T4 h" g, w* S/ R8 k+ mI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.厦门越野联盟$ T( k/ r$ e$ W- U

7 @) K7 B+ z$ V, [1 a" _On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.1 H; F2 m) F6 s8 s

7 F- Y, }' s9 G2 Y: v5 h4 e+ I' K, _9 l厦门越野联盟The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.1.jeeplive.com5 `9 _  p2 r$ E5 i( j5 `

/ k0 z* o7 h# q0 _* O+ hI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.  i6 |0 S, k  z% A

. e9 {3 T5 H  zHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.0 i, N; O8 ]& Y1 l
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".厦门越野联盟  G( u9 C; h' `' O. k; s3 ?

# V: _& E! m9 K& {& l$ fTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.1.jeeplive.com$ s4 _) a0 w* M) K/ _$ |
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain." \2 u$ I; @/ G( w$ `6 G6 ~

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。4 ^  Y7 ], ^. p9 k3 {6 W! Z: D
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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