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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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* v0 `3 W! q8 @' t5 z. L厦门越野联盟他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。7 o$ L$ l1 N7 o0 G, ^$ s

& X$ s7 P$ [) P+ f( W我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。1 B( D0 M2 x1 \

: |0 n1 t4 Y2 N7 \* t1.jeeplive.com看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?3 E: u6 g& d# Z) l, z/ O
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。1.jeeplive.com. ]8 y/ k3 a( r+ p

0 |! s8 u. h/ o, K: V' W我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。1.jeeplive.com$ T( c  p' K0 n2 b! i8 `6 s

4 `! x" D9 }$ G* h1.jeeplive.com我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。厦门越野联盟( f0 v3 r* K: ]* o5 n7 O% ^9 R

8 f' b( X+ q8 `7 H4 |7 ~- }厦门越野联盟我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?": i) M0 F3 x; N+ k& Y

7 X' O! E7 Q5 k+ e$ N1.jeeplive.com他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"1.jeeplive.com7 O" n6 N6 e: x. H. G

$ F7 P# z1 S1 R0 B: l9 I当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。+ l2 {4 q9 o, _( q; X9 E- G: y' Z

" N1 J4 O  L% i; d& ~( w真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。) ^6 P. q1 j5 }9 z& N% H
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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, B2 d, _" C! Y7 [6 k: t. bIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.1.jeeplive.com7 Q' w- z8 F! U9 M# H
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/ }0 x5 G* c! UI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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  L/ C9 P( L- H1 F4 h: W/ aOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.厦门越野联盟, S0 ]4 x, _; {! L) K7 u

& t0 v" }0 a+ b, o$ |5 r" x8 `# M; ~厦门越野联盟The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.1.jeeplive.com3 H: e/ V% F$ W$ `& t. Z7 ]

7 H! ^! F/ |3 ]- [4 w1.jeeplive.comHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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0 k+ X! I' O% C. L( p) P" [' NI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?% I3 p2 t8 ?) B8 U6 M7 r0 l

% o6 w+ @; A" a' SHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".& D. a% \* r# q
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.* P5 Z$ O9 B0 E8 _+ Z4 Z; F4 I

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。- d" p8 ]8 N9 j0 \
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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