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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。3 J1 C! I6 M( `0 [/ R, z1 S
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。厦门越野联盟, O7 `, X$ j5 @! [8 K- f
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。厦门越野联盟6 y" v, k2 J/ K6 Q! s; _
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?厦门越野联盟6 Z9 K3 B. U6 l6 Q4 P+ e

( H5 f; G# N9 B( M9 d  J- Y他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。厦门越野联盟2 M8 [4 y4 Y0 H% T
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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; i  T4 `, v, F% _5 i. e我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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5 R, [8 {& r7 I. M3 a  N他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"厦门越野联盟0 R4 N" h" Y  p2 W
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"厦门越野联盟" ~9 T* e9 R) p

& g, p5 l$ J' P4 f1.jeeplive.com当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。1.jeeplive.com; s3 Q9 G3 w" H1 ]" n

2 I; Y6 I1 z1 {: }2 f% s! f5 D真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。5 F6 j# \+ s$ F, C  d* i. }. T# K
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。( g7 X; N" L) x! R
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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8 F' y% [0 ]0 THe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.. O4 O  F7 u2 r9 B6 e# V
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.- O2 u& r8 s5 V0 J( n
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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0 H: l& K( o  \0 t1.jeeplive.comAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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0 T5 R) [( N' \7 AHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.厦门越野联盟3 G) K' R- [+ Z# Y% ^
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".厦门越野联盟' `; @9 @  F' j+ _4 }, O" l
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".5 H# H; I- t5 y: ~

4 B; B# G3 c4 R4 f4 m1.jeeplive.comTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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, x  @% o: ?  I- DThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.1.jeeplive.com  C7 t8 R' m; y) @! @; t/ ]
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.1.jeeplive.com0 `$ u5 F  U2 t! ]$ o
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。厦门越野联盟" ^% M8 O4 H& j, t# a) }0 w
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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