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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。9 G0 q' P( i) S+ R+ E9 Q! i! v
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。" \. X; `6 e' o7 f/ C7 ?8 I
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?# Q; |" n5 R) ~1 U0 e! s
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。厦门越野联盟7 z3 B! R8 N( D' V! v; z, w4 z
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。1.jeeplive.com% L! u1 Q" l: p9 C9 Y6 t4 @$ ]
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?# f2 C% g  h8 x% r3 o6 u/ Q

. V3 H# i5 f! k0 H% B$ r+ t5 L他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。1.jeeplive.com3 Q& ~* {# d- t2 e% h5 G

' f8 V6 m2 a& i0 s/ o" h我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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; `7 \# ^$ Z; t& e' ^5 E. W* n. r厦门越野联盟当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。; o" R' j# y$ D  q( Y3 p% }( ~- q

, T- t( N- W* }- B+ ]9 c3 U真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。/ C' R2 G3 J* L- l' a  Y6 e0 y( i
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。" Q: j4 N* K* S) p
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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) q- u% ]6 [9 e8 r; IIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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2 q% G( ]$ j" Z! A& PHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.厦门越野联盟" T; H! S, M3 ~
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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" p* a, x8 X( s- w1 P7 V厦门越野联盟On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.1.jeeplive.com$ Y, `2 |' H7 j

( ^) u2 `5 d% R3 r厦门越野联盟I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.. h( ?& k$ `6 C
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.7 T) R* {4 {$ l  e+ V$ l
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.- D9 i1 B/ w4 n
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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2 s4 @  D8 S, I0 I, oHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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: D& ^& ^; V6 G% w2 U! ]# k6 zTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.2 I8 \3 B0 u6 n2 O& b

: T% B" L- w' Q6 _: K$ K1.jeeplive.comThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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0 z6 N" m0 N- c4 L3 j  D0 A厦门越野联盟Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
, ^! [& o; ?" G* W0 G最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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