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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。+ r$ J" M) ?1 r/ g
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。$ _2 N' Q9 D2 I5 k$ E

) m2 {5 `3 C$ k他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。1.jeeplive.com4 ?# M8 V& D0 E& Z$ `7 e: [
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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5 ?6 _# E/ }; J: D. @! X' \1.jeeplive.com我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。8 O% [1 n) Z: F" G5 W
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"' p  D! j! ]- m
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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' X, ]+ B/ _" W) a4 R# D7 g当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。  X( y9 Z& H3 c5 D

4 z' f! K& F* w! E$ J/ ~真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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. S1 P) {5 C  T) j1.jeeplive.com最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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: c1 a6 S6 o, f1 d生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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- m+ ^8 I1 r2 [! V2 pIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.% A  g( p2 d3 J! g4 z( l
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.1.jeeplive.com  b8 A2 a7 e: d( p0 o- |# O$ E. g
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?1.jeeplive.com" i: F! w& x8 b7 Z

. |) @, R1 |& u4 @0 cHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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, R+ K' H' o/ b7 j! Y* ?7 JI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".; M/ w) u9 r. ^! c; \+ Z

. D5 Z. }# Y' t* H  iTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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5 ?" X, m6 |  ^* M3 L& ?, u% a1.jeeplive.comThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.1.jeeplive.com/ J6 ?( u! Y3 |/ @+ v7 _: Q
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.! T3 |' o" Q2 F8 E

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。1 u2 ?  e4 K' [
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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