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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。" m  N, {! h8 }. M- l
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。5 |4 E2 o) V4 k) X

) u: ?2 V. j" ?9 l  }+ g+ K1.jeeplive.com我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。2 S3 Y  Q- `. Q& U6 N& U) k8 J
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?厦门越野联盟: Y1 F1 f' R0 d* h: j6 V
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。* z% m# U3 u1 B  ]6 N& U" ?

7 o: C7 V; t7 `. Q% R( b( P  G我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。* M5 B$ C+ F( b0 ?5 v$ h# w
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"; w, b/ Z" m) j: p
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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' N+ K% `3 X/ w% S/ T6 o' H$ [厦门越野联盟当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。$ j, W4 Z, |! d
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain1.jeeplive.com6 z4 P6 i. I. ]/ o. T/ c8 \

! D1 v1 K; M( c/ |* K! N. jIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.! u& y* W9 m; B: A
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.1.jeeplive.com9 h4 i% F: a1 j) E9 r

8 b$ f7 X$ |  c& E. {+ J' C1.jeeplive.comI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.' w, D8 B; v% m: y; [
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.4 \) E  h* v- k- z9 x

% _. e$ P8 r! I. B) o1.jeeplive.comThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.厦门越野联盟" h3 V  I1 i; x+ X, o

) O  E; Y1 }" ]: F9 D5 x厦门越野联盟As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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  v" v" w, \2 v/ m: H/ D/ o! KHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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3 R& r1 V" k2 W2 k+ U! |5 BI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".1.jeeplive.com* Z; \- d7 }! j1 I% g

! e0 S. A2 v+ C8 GTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.1.jeeplive.com# Q) U0 q& U: _2 o$ Z5 j+ C
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.  [+ \/ ~3 q# K
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。5 [3 d/ ]' l' r  ~0 ?
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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