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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。. o) b- K* J) c2 d+ m" M6 d  r

8 q0 @, G* k' T: K6 O2 z# @厦门越野联盟看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。厦门越野联盟- B5 e! f% o% I# q" U  s2 e  R
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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7 M# ]8 H$ D7 C+ D- C8 |他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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! I* q: S. m* [& H- j3 p我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。厦门越野联盟1 f+ y8 {. i# O  j! U8 S" I

) I2 _$ y  M! F' ?3 i* S我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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; Q- q9 s4 M9 N/ J# y' c  ]" Z他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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# q( b+ I8 ^& h9 O# I  b当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。厦门越野联盟. T% g9 A4 i. U' Z9 g2 ?

& Z" u9 A& ]; l$ e最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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: u4 |# R1 A7 R, L% o5 OIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.$ N$ E, f- W2 P# x* O4 n

% E/ F% q: g2 M' ~" |7 y3 v2 m厦门越野联盟He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.1.jeeplive.com' e; g" G8 Z/ d" V2 w) l, P' l0 r7 C
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.1.jeeplive.com7 i, q3 y+ W. N) N5 [3 W0 @* M

& T( R( C( ?2 P$ J! [厦门越野联盟On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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) P5 h& g; j5 {5 P; `厦门越野联盟The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.厦门越野联盟0 o/ m+ q$ r( p! F" j+ u

( n1 b1 e: C  m" @  cAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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4 D& |/ l2 b! g# V  h" O. Z7 H) ^He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now./ j% c& ^: q9 |( b. V# I

: c( N: E! r. f% s; BI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?- d4 e, s* ^4 B9 Z4 ?

* b/ l4 F: ^9 h: ~2 C0 qHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".厦门越野联盟: P# ], T9 `; S

6 p- h' D+ F+ T. P1 xI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".. e' T5 R4 e" Q6 a- {) h
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.( j1 D' s6 Z" `& H/ h  g1 a& [

8 o# U3 v$ i4 F4 u! k" }1.jeeplive.comLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。1.jeeplive.com. f. o3 n: G, e- [" }6 W
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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