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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。8 l$ x, c* i& \4 A, s9 w. Q

6 b$ X3 K' E9 X/ R他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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% z2 Y. O- z' A/ Q! e; ]1.jeeplive.com看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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+ f9 @" o9 {* D5 X他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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( J' T3 O1 ?! H" X. U& Y厦门越野联盟他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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# D! p$ z  a# U/ B9 H( G  o$ d我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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7 W* @4 }5 s' z6 `3 m厦门越野联盟我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"' W5 s5 Q1 S+ x  g3 G+ h

9 {* N8 j! m) L" O. n- G" c厦门越野联盟他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。4 L5 b! `3 W3 n7 @! A. B4 h# y8 U

* J5 W* t" Z% |; s$ J1.jeeplive.com真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。9 H9 a) ]( v& z" t9 f

. y$ e) L! b7 g+ M8 ~最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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! Z( F, f8 N4 N" w/ F0 L! ?- T! Z0 e生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain# l. j- z! _" H$ _! f. L; d

$ Y' c0 Z' J" o9 [' S2 c厦门越野联盟It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.1.jeeplive.com% A5 ^; N; J7 q: u
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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5 \$ H$ {7 F3 w& V9 e9 e4 u. G厦门越野联盟I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.1.jeeplive.com9 u! a" j5 H9 e9 T. k

/ }6 I5 l2 a# k0 P0 E6 dOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.厦门越野联盟( _& e; l2 S. C6 X% M
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife." k  Z) `0 Q  M# b1 V. p9 k7 |& V
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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! E7 b: ]4 ~: F& cAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.$ d/ k. ?" l/ t) ~1 o+ @3 E8 |
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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) Z( v/ U4 o8 {, lTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.5 i  ?* B9 P7 M: b

5 q6 e& _0 k: V+ [% r& i1.jeeplive.comThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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2 R2 C- o2 O% h* B1.jeeplive.comLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.厦门越野联盟6 O0 _/ D8 y6 Q4 g, V+ K& C' t% l

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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