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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。厦门越野联盟+ p0 u6 ~, v" Y% W0 d/ p

9 O  g" Q7 w4 Z1 z他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。- R7 A3 c: m. `

9 l) C& w8 X3 [/ m  e+ u我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。4 F( T2 X+ F( @1 ?- v+ Q+ r3 f% e- E
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。% b  G; A. P( J8 Y1 r
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?0 z7 W" y& I; P6 F

" ?8 v; ]/ K, \, F他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。; S( {$ J8 E/ t
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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  t5 h1 t/ S  W5 F1.jeeplive.com我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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! }+ J! }3 ~2 l- \6 l他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"/ d9 ~# z" c/ o

+ z* i! ], ?8 Z" N4 C+ k( h9 Y当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。7 t! l+ h4 n! S. R  V

; ^$ p! X" R+ r" a' O5 C最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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$ P2 X% X, D' j+ O4 O' wIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.: }2 V" r5 T% d

/ M; Y2 v6 `! M  n1 ?He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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' K9 V  m0 O; @" k: K, [0 S, o2 G$ cOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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6 f: d# ?0 U2 \1 V6 o8 qThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.厦门越野联盟0 d! p' }, L) {" a

$ W( x. `* a/ L) z$ E! y1.jeeplive.comI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.. W) Q& ^5 J( T0 Y
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.1.jeeplive.com& H* z& n2 E" y( x" E1 w

5 B" k' I( N7 M8 Z/ F9 k% v7 E' Q" d厦门越野联盟He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.0 G+ b. n) Y7 f1 |7 P# N
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?2 X0 n, m, B- n0 B8 B& ?& |; v
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.厦门越野联盟5 t1 |. N- {/ Y/ v

' }8 I% C9 s' g7 h% P3 e0 M厦门越野联盟The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.: |' n  C' x7 l  B
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.厦门越野联盟0 D; P1 w' m2 f/ ]' v+ A6 P7 N7 [

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。7 j; V* x# B  ^! c6 m6 T7 A
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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