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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。( [# W* c1 P& g0 a+ J7 R7 @" C
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。1 P3 c0 x& {' B) j& _
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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/ c9 H# R! T, g% V他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?7 a9 }" A+ B9 m! |
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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" F% U* }& ~7 y4 N" {7 i厦门越野联盟我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。1.jeeplive.com. M' @$ z1 F  ~- d$ A6 t2 `+ i

! O) i  Z% i4 R6 l+ ?( {我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?", a" x( n% l( W! [, k( _. F

1 c; W9 y! ^0 X9 O' S' l1.jeeplive.com他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。7 z0 c+ W( x, K8 C6 i
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。0 ~( }' H0 g& S/ `" V

1 `! x8 j+ c  M% F厦门越野联盟最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。6 ^! C2 ?2 h$ G* y5 r

9 f& I0 F$ |# o生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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' {* R7 ^- n! F4 i9 m( [It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.7 Z* i% x3 f- o/ c: Y/ G; g! E
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.厦门越野联盟) k5 W. C) L2 C7 C5 e
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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0 S! g; D4 Q: Y$ z" nThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.厦门越野联盟& `9 x% L) E( D: m0 r

7 O0 O: k! h- w1 n; _I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.; q8 L, I" a/ F+ v( b( b

" x/ t' h% G9 g" b3 f) \1.jeeplive.comHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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# X, j3 H+ N* F3 Y% hHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".0 i  |0 t, k) T) p" g

7 g8 w/ u# Q" k4 c* l5 u0 v. W3 s1.jeeplive.comTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.厦门越野联盟2 @, Y, N0 ~  a( H& J

5 B5 J. T; C7 C厦门越野联盟The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.1 c) r, V$ k' T4 i2 P3 A, K- b/ }

1 R* u9 x7 z" TLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.7 B& Z" [4 v# ^0 G' [
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。/ w9 k5 p$ b* H( o7 a
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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