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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。0 E* I- O+ e2 l
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。# @. P; {# N9 V) |, O4 k
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。& k  R" q- N. Y4 K4 K! y. }2 n6 s
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?6 B- U( @3 F/ Q& z* H& A$ c; m
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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* l, p: z9 a" G! a我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。; K1 y( o1 w2 z' [( f' U3 C

: [5 @" ^6 ?1 p: ~5 t我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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. N* a* \+ y2 ^$ G+ e$ |他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。" W+ o, b: k+ p; P; k' U

3 V  x. ^$ ^' l; N* V4 u, Y( v4 A我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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0 t& c& t6 s  N  j他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"+ D3 S5 D$ V7 }9 \
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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' F, O; t7 |: U  N& T真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。) n2 E- t# Z- M! u' ^
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。1.jeeplive.com9 @1 o; s0 Q  s9 X" J# C$ w2 z% z' M
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.1.jeeplive.com( C) C" K4 K# n

9 Q, b8 y& {( a+ ^1 R2 B' AHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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! H3 v: x) W# P$ W. H) y- ^8 pI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.( d# V+ w* E+ f8 ^' b" \5 D. r
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.1.jeeplive.com' v6 M) _% |: a& C  Y
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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7 \5 A' M1 ~. M4 G* k' FAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.厦门越野联盟8 n# |% J2 I; t! T% X3 s5 d. B
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?1.jeeplive.com3 H( c$ R  x3 G. q
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".1.jeeplive.com" O3 `: |1 X3 C2 S) k; w+ t3 u

. p" \! p' P7 j+ ^I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".! N7 ?5 H( G  V. {8 Y: l2 J5 |* r7 f

  x' D) o, i+ w4 v1.jeeplive.comTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.1 w+ [" O2 w$ J. }

, I' g) _$ T2 A! h$ c1.jeeplive.comThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。1.jeeplive.com+ M7 a# A9 U9 t% ~2 J: I' a, M0 L
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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