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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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: |, b6 s5 w9 \& P7 B我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。( [% D$ R7 l# x: M4 T' u

+ W0 ?4 f' y( `0 h" r8 O' v看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。$ {9 b  Y" F/ @) O( f$ g

$ `- {- X$ d) o4 {+ p* `2 l- K  V他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?( r, {: x) q/ }' y7 J1 N

3 C( h8 ]; f  {" f+ y他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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( y* q2 R9 V, K0 l0 o我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。% G- p- i6 A5 L. F6 _
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"' x, l/ g- B$ }. [
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"+ G. o& s' m, q* s! J

) l' }3 z3 I2 H. `" s当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。& l5 F5 e. k0 f! w( S" }
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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; ]$ L$ S- ^, s2 |, V最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.; Q* A; Z  L" B( A1 z0 }

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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.. S! D% Y3 Z$ k% F1 H; c
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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" R$ T, \. X) h* d, B1.jeeplive.comOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.3 g9 Y) E8 v' B( M) v9 e; n/ a, l7 o

5 M% Q/ k; u" o3 TThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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' T& ]7 y" y2 n/ a. Z" r5 e3 ^1.jeeplive.comI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.1.jeeplive.com4 h  C: Z9 O9 y2 Z0 O0 X; ]6 L
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.7 `/ i* `8 ?2 u5 p/ Q9 B
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".6 i, E) B! L* n& D0 C
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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" Y, l& c3 v7 V6 x! }' Q; p2 d( n厦门越野联盟True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.# V6 B7 g6 R( y" @5 w9 D* m2 B

6 M$ H# n! Y( n4 s6 N  FThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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! q/ A8 G/ i/ }9 E1.jeeplive.comLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。1 Q8 n' f' H2 D6 S$ j
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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