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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。1.jeeplive.com! c& `; L( L5 E8 }; z' I" G

% T, I" l& b* }+ p2 t" J. ?他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。. n8 a# d) S6 N: ~  k

8 g2 p& Z# l3 [- g" E! E' z' r我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。% j2 i7 @- p  }, o, M: S& W* L

  Y! h$ _' P# o; M/ W8 G9 ~7 `厦门越野联盟看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。  s5 g! L6 A/ M

' p4 `" s9 w* A, G+ a3 O& w他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?0 r  I$ _/ Z6 e( B+ }# F# H

# b& M, @& h3 ^: I" c9 e1 n他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。1.jeeplive.com* `, J! p: i$ Q1 p
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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( k( N) R* F/ u厦门越野联盟我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。( y% u3 [! {9 s" p9 Y
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"6 e! J1 ]# ~2 i

5 f. I$ G- ]- \. l% N1.jeeplive.com他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"3 |& T$ p% j5 X5 g
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。厦门越野联盟. B6 a) l* |; _* j8 M/ y0 a+ q

& D" r1 W/ @; ]/ E3 d; S, w$ }5 g! o最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。厦门越野联盟3 @/ Y8 q# z- X) |  i( `

+ o- N% N# y, r/ P4 j  \5 Z2 Y生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain" G5 Y* e" X' v
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.! U& s; \5 a/ p* W, R' p& H
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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: F3 U8 K2 y* D: ^% G7 bI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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% T' Q7 j1 i+ o9 T6 d/ COn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.# z: X8 a) [9 _: `7 l+ k/ D
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.# C2 c; {2 Z  M7 p; v0 ^
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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$ ~7 h' z6 i6 y0 |& N5 i8 |# EI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".8 |% j/ P+ o; E" B& s

0 R& ?; y! |( @& R' \1.jeeplive.comTrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.8 A: T$ S4 X+ P6 A
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。  [/ r! p) G- ^) C" t
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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