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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。1.jeeplive.com# O4 E4 `1 N) E/ b  I" t$ l! G/ B
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。  E5 J3 |8 U3 P2 j& a4 b) }" T
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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" @" v6 K. N3 ^; c1 {$ e看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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& W0 ^( r% L8 S4 ]他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。厦门越野联盟/ Q* w+ s2 N. E, F* M5 q8 [$ `# |- i
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?厦门越野联盟5 u1 g1 ~* ~6 j; {" W- z

& G* U  B$ g" b; u6 G1.jeeplive.com他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。1.jeeplive.com/ N" S- ?" ], h0 p9 q9 T! W1 G% Z  k  r

) D0 ~5 Z/ \! y4 W+ p9 [4 E我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"厦门越野联盟) I4 d6 h0 c. Q. f% C6 Y- _$ Q

# Q" t: v: X7 g/ G' [% F$ b他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。; N+ c' t1 y8 g

) O0 |: s! F: {7 n% C厦门越野联盟真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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* R3 p/ m, t3 u: Z9 i( z9 u最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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5 N1 J( W/ a, O$ q$ M( c厦门越野联盟It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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6 M3 ]' `7 |1 ~1.jeeplive.comHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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6 V% ]8 J- Z% i5 R# M1.jeeplive.comI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.1.jeeplive.com9 ]" N# j) ~& C: _4 B* Q/ F

; ^3 P# j: n* v& @3 U厦门越野联盟I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.. \2 R0 A( U" S2 T

. |% U! L; B: ]: HOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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. t7 g0 K) r' @5 q( b5 }, J) s6 j1.jeeplive.comThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.厦门越野联盟, }% Z  B5 J$ k4 J3 c6 D5 n6 h  {

# u& p: y( r$ C: hI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.; J' A' l$ Y/ M
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.1.jeeplive.com8 w: G' g* Z/ ~. ]- t" n
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?% m; @# E* C' U0 |

4 ]* f$ H  I5 L3 Y& A) |, T0 ^He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be., v- q0 |5 S% Q. e. A7 M

  e; a( Y9 Y& L( @& r1 K& E3 l0 zThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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& v3 O0 z7 G: i+ z) PLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。# W% M# g5 t/ ^6 a
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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