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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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8 {4 v- d# o% J6 T! ?他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。  i( y# u! l$ s0 b9 x. x+ c
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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6 ?; v3 ^  \# q1 w$ u他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?& e+ e; C, b8 {4 `/ l1 p7 v
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。% T! {. k) C7 E
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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/ X9 D4 N1 \# l( p' |) v6 K& j0 H我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?! ], _5 ^1 j' _$ W6 ~
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。厦门越野联盟! X+ M& R. x9 T! A9 s

' y9 \1 k2 G5 Y我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"6 M, n% _2 }. J/ t+ u7 _2 o
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"厦门越野联盟! U- o* X6 {9 X. G7 k8 c3 f' w
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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' F1 C2 q' k' w8 T; r! |9 v真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。. b3 W8 }4 z9 @* k3 X* v
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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6 J. s! w4 l4 G# ~& z6 k* JIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.; g/ P  S7 @; T% u* ?
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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; A, g: \* X; @' u4 |9 X' w/ pI saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.厦门越野联盟& Q; I5 F7 f. z$ J% Z# J  `

' T0 @' C! x" {On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife., n. c0 e/ E. T: Z

) @1 ?( @& K. j) F' c/ XI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.7 W6 U3 k3 c7 Y1 }* f  N1 S; `  H

0 [  S# c% c: h- |) ~5 T+ v9 UAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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9 Q% C: Z% J: ~0 g- s; ^- hI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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( ?% z1 Q( q2 W2 V5 x厦门越野联盟He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".: P5 J# k4 ~, ?/ z, [1 p; I  \

4 z$ r5 M2 l1 w5 W. Y/ Z3 @I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".$ `( _2 {, B6 N0 g# K4 F  U) l
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.1.jeeplive.com/ U" L* F: m4 W
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
( x, }3 g( \" s  \1 }1.jeeplive.com最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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