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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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3 {$ D! {0 m: s* O他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。1 B! u$ w" Z# o" C& [9 U  d) e
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。1.jeeplive.com: ^2 ?1 z, V/ u& a' `

9 L1 |$ S2 r( {% Y) }) b- _$ n( [8 e看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。/ L$ t& i/ l' B7 m
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?& O1 c' a" \; \$ f, A

+ v3 W1 m, v* i1 c! Q他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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* N3 i" M5 d0 s' S7 G% e" _$ Z他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"/ }* S. y% q3 h2 z0 S# Z# q) z

; G( O& g% q% G" t6 ^6 a他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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$ y3 J- ?! ]) A- J( \& Y当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。8 z1 q  Q. B9 i/ U5 n) U

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain: O! ^0 w! B" c" k  U

% a. c3 I0 w8 A' H! x% DIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.4 ?7 r) K6 |7 c
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He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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8 H2 X7 o; T5 a6 \6 E, wI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.厦门越野联盟/ e: F8 H" G6 a3 r3 F* }& e
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.1.jeeplive.com7 J) g) q- P# k% M5 V! |

# G4 l; ^* v: X, G6 VOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.厦门越野联盟! l% ]; Q$ K( D* b3 O- O
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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- C; b  l7 K& F$ jI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?1.jeeplive.com5 t) ~8 |# [/ F- p' |7 X

4 k- _- A- R+ C/ M& eHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".1.jeeplive.com. K! m9 z' C! A8 i4 T

# X' Y6 ^4 c# h) o) A* P- D) |True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.厦门越野联盟2 Z/ g8 k: O3 q
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.+ t4 E, n; z3 b. i1 {
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.5 ~9 d  ~. f: Q8 h- z0 Q
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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