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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。厦门越野联盟7 r7 l4 l& ?3 d& d5 D  _! C! `- W' _
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。- A3 g3 a' e6 a5 ?
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。厦门越野联盟+ g  n! D2 N- q# S

2 S- ~2 j; e. z$ G- \2 O他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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- b# D' y: g1 B4 p! D7 ?4 V& v3 ]1.jeeplive.com他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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* O# n. D5 D; e$ L5 }+ Y1.jeeplive.com我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?6 y# ^- M7 U6 `5 `5 Q+ o

3 o8 u2 ~( v/ B他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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6 U, j* z+ t6 O2 c+ p1.jeeplive.com他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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  X" p0 o. o$ }1 W当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。1.jeeplive.com- N& L) ~& _5 k( H0 ?- k* l9 o

) O5 u' _0 ^4 g$ o生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain9 O. b5 ?; _& g' u. _# v9 U

: Z6 b; k4 k1 ]厦门越野联盟It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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( |" b; L! q; O. A' sHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.1.jeeplive.com7 N  p: `8 [" c% B/ ^/ v3 h

: ]8 N  ~1 f4 t, S+ TOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.7 t% h% h- R! v) b+ I
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.' F3 A; B1 e0 y& Y8 r2 ~

: C' \7 I7 v/ l: c# FI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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5 y$ @1 D  [+ c+ ?) g1 ]( U6 E厦门越野联盟As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.5 w4 p- f, E5 n* M" \& c0 }2 D9 u
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He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.0 j; v0 D# j  n6 o: I$ e" f2 a
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".- |' e. ]% E. l

  f2 ]3 R+ `( @; _+ g- M* r0 YI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".2 w" `# p0 A" N% @' R; D+ O- E

9 n9 g# R6 C9 {* r+ M+ R- {- o$ ITrue love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.  u* G( H. g6 r: T5 ]) t
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.厦门越野联盟) V! P. l* N& P8 v5 q+ R
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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