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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。* d& A# F7 d7 w. M1 [. F

  n% q3 t# K( D4 x, q9 P5 ?( c& S他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。
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6 z* \" Y) j5 i; _- J' k看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。! j: u7 I8 g2 D7 a
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?厦门越野联盟$ |+ D9 S% H5 z% v" D8 }# d

/ f. N# ]8 t  R6 u: h他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。厦门越野联盟' C, A; m. `) P# _2 a5 \! n

8 @! p# {; z& Y" T我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?4 V/ y8 Y, y4 ^$ ~! T. I8 n7 N
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。. S% m; t7 z4 Z/ F+ @' v9 x

6 a: O& o3 K0 O0 E/ ^1.jeeplive.com我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"! u' t# v, E8 m1 I

0 A" W' q9 h* L, K1 k# O/ x& D' C他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。1 a7 l5 g, H, L$ D4 e

) T2 i; E, [( f, ]5 }: z& T3 V1.jeeplive.com真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain9 c* D0 m3 z9 _9 g/ q1 U% E" ?) B

' [% L+ K) `: r2 d- c厦门越野联盟It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.
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/ ]* ^4 f. F" E) H. N, o; e) a+ d0 u1.jeeplive.comHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.1.jeeplive.com0 z: S$ @$ t  w

6 F9 ^  r9 K& s8 B/ l7 Q; RI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.! a* d$ K( p5 U4 b$ }/ F2 _9 J
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.( M' [0 {# s- L6 _/ [: A3 O
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On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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# l6 t9 ^  b+ u# Z- i! ~' V4 z7 ]1.jeeplive.comThe man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.! @( k8 @3 q1 @: D
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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+ j$ `7 y, Z9 A2 c厦门越野联盟As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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: t+ G. L+ _: kHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now." `5 |  P8 Y7 A
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?/ q% {" U! M# D0 |8 m$ a& k  {

( q/ T( H- G1 p0 M1 WHe smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".厦门越野联盟; `. v5 K+ |( E. y* M

) m2 V9 H" D6 ?- M0 gI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.
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/ P5 w) B+ Z; B: rLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.1.jeeplive.com/ w! C/ E' e9 C# l8 [

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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