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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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1 O$ b) L9 i( |: k/ L! c: {他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。
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" U1 X  d$ i1 j厦门越野联盟我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。厦门越野联盟$ U$ G( l% U! D1 ~' |8 h
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。$ `. N5 R9 d1 k# f3 h

  g. p; R/ ]8 }厦门越野联盟他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?, J8 b+ z/ Y. d) `# [8 y5 Y
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他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。) [' |- R; S) _9 |; U, p+ Z/ M, N
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我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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* ^1 t) W- l$ e; l1 L1 w他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。厦门越野联盟# r& F9 ]( S+ F9 H7 w

+ r; \- M. i& E我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?"
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他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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9 x1 E: Q' V8 r6 s* s当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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/ u; P, d) v; w0 g生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain" k$ F2 p1 f! O; |; T# ]6 M

+ Y+ X  f; w% O( \( X. K1.jeeplive.comIt was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.1.jeeplive.com. f5 _, c2 u* x7 ?, j5 }$ e

* ?, C& p/ t9 K# O6 FHe said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.' ~1 y/ N  w6 b( k
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.$ }2 Y  s' S; u5 y7 I

2 a+ a5 j- M7 a) [On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
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* R) N" o4 r( b( M3 f8 M4 t( L6 S厦门越野联盟The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.
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I inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.
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7 z2 S' ^" Z7 d& {' P0 p- q0 bAs we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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) I7 {, r5 |4 E- l( m  VHe replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.6 A$ t: o6 |) k7 m0 A0 q+ ?9 Y4 s- ?( W

" ^3 [9 R. F& d9 c+ G/ D1.jeeplive.comI was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?- |) U7 C- d' K) n
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He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".$ i$ _$ b, s# X
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I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".% c# d6 _9 t8 e1 w, C8 o6 D
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True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.厦门越野联盟6 h  H" g: m7 y, b/ [

7 X  q. B- V2 A! \厦门越野联盟The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have.1.jeeplive.com0 Z2 `+ @6 f/ t1 {$ f3 l

  Y. t* j5 u0 o- s) |- m1 sLife isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.3 h/ j) P+ c+ M! E3 D
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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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