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[转载] 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30,一个80多岁的老人进来了,来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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他说他很着急,因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。$ Z7 @3 V  M, h# d! w5 U
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我让他坐了下来,我知道,至少要一个小时后,某位医生才会有时间看他。; N: C, @. k0 g! i1 g
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看他不停地看表,我决定先检查他的伤口,因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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他的伤口愈合很好,我给他拆了线,并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急,是不是还要去看另外的医生?
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0 @" c. C; g* W) C. t他说不是,但他需要去老年公寓(NursingHouse,托老院)和妻子一同吃早餐。9 m# X1 ]# ^1 e! s6 `8 S
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我顺便问到她的健康状况,他对我说,她是老年性痴呆症(Alzheimer'sDisease)患者,去老年公寓已经有段时间了。0 I5 z1 @6 K3 G' d* ]

9 T7 L5 Z3 F+ A% O我们继续交谈着,我问他如果迟到了,她是否会有点不高兴?
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他回答说,她根本不知道他是谁,她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。厦门越野联盟& e. [7 A+ n) l* P5 o
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我很吃惊地问,"即便她已经认不出你是谁了,你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗?", m0 F) p1 ]1 ?( f1 B5 X

7 R, H3 _4 n! l0 {# o/ z; G他拍拍我的手臂,微笑着说,"她是不认识我了,但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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2 L/ h' |+ L% E. z) c' W1.jeeplive.com当他离开的时候,我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩,我忍住了泪水,想道,"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。" p  X9 ^; i3 ^6 R# @8 D0 W  I
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真正的爱,既不是生理的,也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。% M5 r. D6 z/ l. y; X

1 \: H4 m. ^, n1 d1 L+ O1.jeeplive.com最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存,而是怎样在雨中起舞。
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  • 乐乐儿 越野币 +3 我很赞同 2008-5-10 12:45

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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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+ s6 b' e: O/ }" a! x1 d# K) |It was a busy morning, about 8:30, when an elderly man in his 80s, arrived to have stitches removed from his thumb.1.jeeplive.com. _" B$ s/ p, W) }8 q9 y2 _- W' V: y0 J

, _5 V3 l0 V/ L厦门越野联盟He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am.
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& q, `5 w8 v# m; x( t+ wI took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would be able to see him.
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I saw him looking at his watch, and decided, since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound.
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( z* v+ l. D7 b: R$ Y9 zOn exam, it was well healed, so I talked to one of the doctors, got the needed supplies to remove his sutures and redress his wound. While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.. y6 }' @$ h9 q1 r* j- f& ?% ]
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The man told me no but he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.% o$ l0 u1 l, H3 s* u

! x+ J- N# n+ V2 y/ p9 ~, D% T; vI inquired as to her health; he told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease.+ S9 `. }! W: e' o* H
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As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
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6 d# g% h$ \* F9 e' X厦门越野联盟He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now.
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I was surprised, and asked him, "And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?
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" m/ n# n- }' [& J/ O9 [% I2 `厦门越野联盟He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".1.jeeplive.com% v% T7 h! y1 U0 p7 y% p- x

) j+ f1 H6 N; v5 L4 u9 M1.jeeplive.comI had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".厦门越野联盟0 D1 @1 v6 v( Y9 w6 `+ H: B" y

: t) n7 k. f: }. y0 m7 ~True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
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  Q$ |/ Q1 j) H' EThe happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have., p# r& y' i5 }
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Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain.1.jeeplive.com7 E- T, f/ V3 `: w4 [

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好   感   人!  :)
人,要么是个艺术品,要么戴件艺术品。

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还君明珠双泪垂,恨不相逢未嫁时
书本的东西渐渐脱落,生活露出真实的内核。日夜旋顾,惟身与影。

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顶起。
平平淡淡才是真.

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真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
" R  [" R( |; N1.jeeplive.com最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的,他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
这天的工作已经完成,让我有个好梦.

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感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

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