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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存，而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30，一个80多岁的老人进来了，来拆他的拇指伤口的线。:wU$uN7YeT#l7o

sXgt$peFWN 他说他很着急，因为9:00钟他有另一个约会。;PP},[%qF:g

oL8Ic)D*XB9}c 我让他坐了下来，我知道，至少要一个小时后，某位医生才会有时间看他。
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看他不停地看表，我决定先检查他的伤口，因为我当时虽然有病人却并不太忙。
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'`6?8X9@-B{|l 他的伤口愈合很好，我给他拆了线，并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急，是不是还要去看另外的医生？u`_vw)y
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5K9A&hE O\tO 他说不是，但他需要去老年公寓（NursingHouse，托老院）和妻子一同吃早餐。
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g)FN7I)e#xG,vmV 我们继续交谈着，我问他如果迟到了，她是否会有点不高兴？-_1?!l*U9J8B

Dm8F/vvT4Xj 他回答说，她根本不知道他是谁，她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。q*AYvr.[.jT_0Sl
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我很吃惊地问，"即便她已经认不出你是谁了，你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗？"#r+V;u5{N*?&HY*N

-\4@a*y$n0^6l 他拍拍我的手臂，微笑着说，"她是不认识我了，但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"
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_;u m?;fP 当他离开的时候，我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩，我忍住了泪水，想道，"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。b;WCnXu`g

{7LZQ)P_|uH 真正的爱，既不是生理的，也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。DV?Zx9b lAmR

"p Y3\hjKgB 最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的，他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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1D1U Jc/^$Gm%~ He smiled as he patted my hand and said, "She doesn't know me, but I still know who she is".-K-y9UE~s6P4`#^

&{/X&VXYI I had to hold back tears as he left; I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought, "That is the kind of love I want in my life".7] M)Vjgo&xg7Z
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,c1DO,X g9U 中文由BOKANG翻译！

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还君明珠双泪垂，恨不相逢未嫁时

顶起。

真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。QX-x#|4\ ]0m
最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的，他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。

感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

让我对幸福有了另一种理解