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生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存，而是怎样在雨中起舞

那是一个忙碌的早晨。大约8:30，一个80多岁的老人进来了，来拆他的拇指伤口的线。
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.L'M9~ZC-x 他的伤口愈合很好，我给他拆了线，并重新把他的手包扎起来。同时我问他这么着急，是不是还要去看另外的医生？
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他说不是，但他需要去老年公寓（NursingHouse，托老院）和妻子一同吃早餐。DWc \)@v,m0~

6FxC!bO~VM 我顺便问到她的健康状况，他对我说，她是老年性痴呆症（Alzheimer'sDisease）患者，去老年公寓已经有段时间了。
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)x6CS\Ols 他回答说，她根本不知道他是谁，她认不出他是谁已经有五年了。c4_5XWo}2|/MV

?/|zwT 我很吃惊地问，"即便她已经认不出你是谁了，你还是每天去陪她吃早餐吗？"5XR-E#P/e;kVk!r

D^H6g1Z3P xB;I.^ 他拍拍我的手臂，微笑着说，"她是不认识我了，但我仍然知道她是谁啊。"%C T+A2z7|G vX

2l }E'~$mu~ 当他离开的时候，我的手臂上起了鸡皮疙瘩，我忍住了泪水，想道，"这才是我生命中所需要的那种爱"。
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真正的爱，既不是生理的，也不是浪漫的。真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。:U0d1Pb0\E

^a4{h3X.T FM-w 最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的，他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。
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oqcaRmY2n5DC;E 生命不是怎样在风暴中求生存，而是怎样在雨中起舞。

Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain
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顶起。

真正的爱就是接受那所有的曾经、现在、将来。
9J;p)v?.sum 最幸福的人并不非要拥有世界上最好的，他们只是在他们能拥有的里面找到了最美好的。

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再顶。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。

感动!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

好帖好帖 感动中:loveliness:

让我对幸福有了另一种理解